I recently had the chance to photograph a maternity session here in Martinez that felt really special. The light was pure magic—golden sun pouring through green trees, tall grass swaying in the breeze… it was one of those evenings where everything just clicked. But what made it unforgettable wasn’t just the setting. It was the story behind it.

Susan, my client, was referred to me by one of her coworkers. She reached out for a maternity shoot—but this wasn’t a typical one. Her sister Linda is carrying the baby for her.

Yes—Susan’s sister is her surrogate!

Ten years ago, Linda offered to carry a baby for Susan and her husband, knowing they’d been struggling to have a child since 2016. It took some time (and a lot of thought) before they finally decided to move forward with Linda’s incredible offer.

Now Linda, who lives in Colorado, is back in the Bay Area for the birth—right where she and Susan grew up. She had her own child decades ago (her son is 30 now!), and while she wasn’t the obvious choice for a surrogate at 46, she was approved by her specialist and is getting ready for a planned C-section soon.

Photographing them together was honestly emotional. The love, support, and connection between these sisters—it was so real, so powerful. And as the sun started to set, lighting them up in that golden glow, I couldn’t help but feel honored to capture such a meaningful chapter in their story.

If you’ve ever thought about becoming a surrogate or growing your family in a different way, I hope this story encourages you. Families are built in all kinds of beautiful, selfless, and unexpected ways.

Planning a Surrogacy Maternity Photo Shoot: Ideas + Inspiration

Surrogacy is such a unique and emotional journey—and documenting it with photos can be a powerful way to honor everyone involved. Whether you’re the intended parent, the surrogate, or a loved one supporting them, here are some tips and ideas to help you prepare for a meaningful photo session:

1. Include Both the Surrogate and the Intended Parents

This is a shared story, and having everyone present in the shoot adds depth and connection. Capture moments between the surrogate and intended parents—holding hands, laughing together, or sharing a quiet, reflective moment.

2. Bring Something Sentimental

Think: a handwritten letter, a baby item (like a tiny pair of shoes), or even a framed ultrasound. These can add a personal touch and make for beautiful, emotional photos.

3. Use Props with Meaning

A simple sign with a phrase like “Carrying love” or “For my sister’s heart” can say so much. Some people bring a baby book or journal to capture this part of the journey. Others bring a flower crown, blanket, or piece of fabric that symbolizes comfort and connection.

4. Choose a Location That Matters

Whether it’s where the baby will be born, where you grew up, or just a peaceful nature spot like the one we used in Martinez—choosing a meaningful place adds emotional depth to the photos.

5. Don’t Be Afraid to Get Real

Some of the most beautiful moments come from being open—showing the joy, the hope, the waiting. You don’t have to smile in every photo. Sometimes a quiet gaze or a shared hug tells the whole story.

6. Include Family Members or Kids

If the surrogate or intended parents already have children, including them can be a sweet reminder of the love that already exists and the family that’s growing.

7. Write Letters for the Baby

Consider writing a short note to the baby—whether from the surrogate, the parents, or both. You don’t have to read them aloud during the session (unless you want to), but having them there can be powerful. And someday, they’ll be such a beautiful thing for that child to read.

8. Trust Your Photographer

You don’t have to know exactly what to do. A good photographer will guide you through the shoot in a way that feels natural, respectful, and emotionally honest. It’s all about telling your story.

You’re Not Alone

If you’re going through the surrogacy process—whether carrying a child for someone you love or waiting to meet your baby—know that you are not alone. There’s so much love and strength in this kind of journey. I hope these ideas help you feel seen, celebrated, and connected.

And if you’re local to the Bay Area and thinking about documenting your own story—I’d be honored to help tell it.

PS, a little miracle happened when booking this session. We later found out that Susan would be by Neuro physical therapist. What a coincidence! The next week she ended up giving me many useful tips and educated me to help me improve with my MS symptoms. It really is a small world.